Conversation Stems

The following are just suggestions to help get the conversation flowing. Please feel free to offer additional suggestions. Keep in mind that these are geared toward online discussion.


--- Posts ---

• What I feel I need to be happy is...
• My internal state right now is…
• My relationship to anger is...
• Something I'm good at is...
• Something I’m proud of is… 
• What I like about me is…
• What I want you to know about me is… 
• Something most people don't know about me is...
• Something I’m embarrass about is...
• My idea of a perfect day off is…

--- Responses ---

• What I really got about you is...
• Hearing that makes me feel…
• Where I felt you the most was...
• Something I really admire/enjoy/appreciate about you is…
• What I like about you is…
• What’s that like?
• What I really want to know about you is…
• What I really want for you is...
• My first impression of you is/was...

--- Go Deeper ---

• A time when I felt most vulnerable was...    The most vulnerable part about it was...
• A transcendent experience I had was...   The most rewarding part about it was...
• A time in my life when I felt most challenged was... The most challenging part about it was...
• An embarrassing experience I had was... The most embarrassing part about it was...
• My earliest memory is... The way I felt in that moment was...
• A time I was elated in love is... The best part about it was...
• A time I was disappointed in love is... the worst part about it was...

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